Men through different Stages of Life

This is the process of life

that is unique and individual to each of us 

The journey of man's self discovery

As I moved through my learning of woman....

I learnt how to understand man.  

The many stages that he needed to embrace

on his own journey of discovery in this life.

As a child, a young man, a lover, a husband, a mentor and guardian,

as his fathers before him, and theirs before them,

his sons too will continue on their journey.

Within each life coming to terms with our experiences,

emotional thoughts and feelings reflects

greatly on our minds and bodies.  

Whether it is that we have received the nurturing

from our mothers and role model of the true concept of masculinity

from our fathers as a child and young man, alongside

the love that we all need or not...

We will find ourselves at times wondering how to

create the change we need to release the pain and suffering ...

And so often for many of us we continue with the

pain of suffering until it becomes too great for us to bare,

for the pain of change may seem greater...

And there will come a time to be willing to change.  

So it is that we will experience all of the beauty and pain of life...

no matter whom we are.

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The Divine Masculine Embracing The Divine Union

The journey of self discovery for a man,

of understanding the true concept of masculinity.

The understanding of need for man to express his emotions

his feelings of disempowerment, lack of self confidence,

pain and feelings that lay deep in his heart,  all have been suppressed 

by the knowledge of society with its opinion and expectation of him.

The ability to embrace and love the masculine within, will enable him to have

the opportunity to feel free to embrace the masculine outside of himself,

in his self expression and communication with the world.

As a boy to be taught how to connect to emotions,

establishes the right to cry as a man.

The understanding about feelings is of vital importance

to be given to the boys who do not have the role model

of a father that is connected to his own emotions in his life.

To learn to be honest about feelings and the necessity

to break away from the typical stereo types...

Enables the freedom of choice to express individuality.

To be a father whether you live with your son or absent from home,

your son needs to know you are there for him, as does your daughter too.

The need to recognise that both men and women

have masculine and feminine energies is of great importance. 

The man's main role as a provider and protector alongside nurturer and nourisher...

And the main role of the woman as the nurturer and nourisher with

the provider and protector as a less prominent part of her. 

In today's world we cross over in so many aspects of our lives,

which has created an amazing opportunity for both men and women

to connect to themselves and each other,

with the awareness of choice in their self expression and love.

The dawning of a new era is presenting itself for us all to embrace, 

the acceptance within of our masculine and feminine energies...

The two become one and our self trust and love

create a partnership of equality

between man and woman... a divine union.